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Intimate Exchanges: Quotes By Alan Ayckbourn
"When this company had done its last performance of Way Upstream, in Houston in America, most of the company were so exhausted by America that they all wanted a rest, except Lavinia and Robin who were quite happy to carry on. It came to me that here was the opportunity, without putting anybody out of work, to do my two-hander that I'd always wanted to do. Here were two actors I'd worked with for years and years, two people who would actually trust me, and I could trust them, to do a play of an enormous nature. Sisterly Feelings was a play in which there were alternative scenes in the middle but that was a small scale version of what I really wanted to do, which was a play which developed from one tiny little moment - whether a woman decides to smoke a cigarette or not - into two separate second scenes, four choices of third scene, eight choices of fourth and sixteen choices of fifth scene. To do that hair-raising amount of material and ask two people to do it, to learn the equivalent of half the bible, required an enormous act of faith. If I'd carried that round the West End in a suitcase, which is what the scripts would have needed, I don't think anybody would necessarily have bought it.
"With the 16 endings I've been fascinated by choice. The fact from the little one's said about one's own life that apparently it's all been totally accidental. I didn't know Stephen Joseph from Adam. I just knew there was a job going in Scarborough, when I was chiefly concerned about my little props cupboard while working in rep in Leatherhead. And when he was ill and dying and I was a bit rudderless, I joined the BBC entirely by accident, to find myself sent to Leeds and into the lap of another remarkable man Alfred Bradley. He was very special and incredibly into new work, and there was I rolling around like a marble. If I'd rattled the other way, what would have happened? From the tiny choice about the cigarette in Intimate Exchanges we go into bigger choices until at the end we're talking about birth, death and marriage. The idea came and so the choice thing happened."
(Marxism Today, March 1983)

"Although there are a number of variations performed every year I don't think anyone has ever done all eight plays [since the original production]....
"The female character makes a decision in the first few lines of the play and from that two quite different scenes develop. The play is about those tiny decisions we all make in our lives that lead to bigger consequences. It's a huge concept and is very difficult as there are just two actors playing a total of 10 roles. All the characters are very different and it is a feat of memory for the actors to learn about 16 to 17 hours worth of dialogue. After a production like this you don't have a nerve in your body because it can't get any worse!
"I think it contains some of my finest writing, There are some nice gags and I did get an odd smile from myself when reading through the script, which is rare."
(Scarborough Evening News, 4 January 2006)

"The play is really about a woman making the tiniest choice, but out of that comes these endings when people die, get married or have children and all as a result of this tiny ripple effect....
"I thought it might be (re-staged) but I knew it would only be by me. They've been done in ones and twos but that's a bit boring. Why do one Norman Conquest when you've got three? We've got 16 endings here and I've only seen some of them once....
"I described it as a celebration of acting when we first did it and Lavinia [Bertram] replied 'I think it's more of an orgy'."
(Northern Echo, 10 March 2007)

"They all finish with a certain dying fall, except for a couple that go up in mood. In general, the point is that we do have free will and we can choose, but we can't change unless we make a huge effort. Only Sylvie makes a big change; she's the one who changes the most. If you don't change, you just end up in the same place. How many men do we know who end up marrying the same woman again and again! At the end of their lives, people who have unsuccessful relationships will say weren't they unlucky in love but maybe they were impossible to live with. Anyone who would marry Lionel Hepplewick in Intimate Exchanges must be mad!"
(The Press, 23 March 2007)

“After the trials and tribulations of getting half-drowned in Way Upstream in Texas most of the company were desperate for a rest and a change of dry clothing. I found myself with a company of two – but two who just happened to be the most experienced. Lavinia [Bertram] and Robin [Herford]. An opportunity, I felt, to re-explore my Variable Theatre experiments – but this time in greater depth than I’d dare do in Sisterly Feelings. It was a fascinating and very rewarding experience which I don’t think any of us will ever forget. Between them, they memorised thirty scenes, eleven different characters and sixteen or so hours of dialogue. I described it rather pompously as a Festival of the Art of Acting. Lavinia described it as an orgy. At any rate it did introduce two more Scarborough stalwarts to the West End. Lavinia got an Olivier Award nomination for Best Comedy Performance and the play a Best Comedy nomination. Robin was later nominated for a Sony Award when the plays were recorded for the BBC World Service. None of us, alas, won.”
(‘Ayckbourn At 50’ souvenir programme)

"Have you ever reflected how those tiny decisions we make every day of our lives – (Shall I take a raincoat today?) can often require us to make further small decisions (Should I shelter in this doorway?), that lead to larger decisions (Shall I accept this stranger’s offer of a drink?) which then demand a really big decision (Should we see each other again?), forcing you into those vast decisions (Shall we share our lives together?), that finally lead to the truly monumental decisions (Is it time we called it a day?)"
(Alan Ayckbourn, April 1982)

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